Bold & Beautiful

Hello my lovelies!!

I am sorry that I haven’t written for a bit. Sometimes there are not many interesting things to write about haha.

There’s a few things I can write about, but today I want to talk about just one topic.

Recently I asked out a guy that I am interested in … I have actually been interested in him for a few years now. Ever since I moved into this ward where I am going to at church. He’s a really nice guy and works hard.

Anyway, when I asked him out he told me that it would be fun but that right now he is so busy trying to make enough money to just pay his bills, dealing with family situations, and with his work in the church. So he doesn’t really have time right now while he is trying to get everything to settle down again.

I believe him. I believe things may be busy. But when you want something you make time for it. So I don’t think anything is going to happen there sadly.

Anyway, the thing is that I was bold with him and made him tell me if he wanted to go out or not. And I realized this – I am tired of waiting around. I am tired of these games that people play with dating.

I am going to be 25 this month and I am kind of ready to get out of this single life. I’m ready to move on to the next things in life. I’m ready to be in a serious relationship.

So …

I’m going to the bold and beautiful. 

I am trying to ask around to see if anyone I know can introduce me to other guys. I want to meet new people, and get out there more.

The dating world is frustrating at times and people just aren’t dating as much.

I’m using online dating and here’s the thing. People either don’t talk to you, but they swipe up (almost as if they are just trying to boost their own ego), or they just want to hook up.

Recently I had been talking to someone for a month via texting and phone calls and then he tells me that he only wants to date for fun because he feels he is still too young and that I am just a friend he is talking to… and then about 2 weeks later he tells me he has been kind of seeing someone (who may I mention is older than him … the same age as me). So I guess he isn’t just wanting to date for fun.

Anyway, the point is I am wanting to put myself out there!

Bold and Beautiful!!! 

Any suggestions??! Let me know!!!

5 thoughts on “Bold & Beautiful

  1. Stephanie Moore says:

    Go you! Dating is extremely stressful nowadays. That’s awesome that you were bold to ask someone else; you gained something from that experience for sure!

    In case this is any help, I met my fiancé on Tinder [it gets a bad rep, but honestly, you meet truly genuine people on it!] I definitely vouch on how well it’s worked out for me!

    You definitely have a point in recognizing when someone wants to make you a priority and should never settle or compromise their excuses with reasons when you realize how much you deserve! I wish you the best and happiest luck, you always find your person when you stopped looking! Even though I was on Tinder, it wasn’t my intention – but that’s another story and it ended well with me! 🙂

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    • Kaitlin Chase says:

      Haha thanks so much Stephanie!

      I did learn something from that experience. And like you said I shouldn’t settle and I know one day I will find someone who will actually want me and will make time for me.

      I have heard so many stories from people meeting on Tinder. I don’t know how you all have such luck with that! So many of my co-workers met that way.

      But I’m not giving up! So hopefully if I put myself out there more things will eventually work out.

      Thanks for your advice and comments Stephanie. I really appreciate it. ❤️

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      • Stephanie Moore says:

        You’re welcome, can’t wait to see what God unfolds for you! Yeah, I’m pretty fortunate to have found someone on it, I was a little skeptical too!

        I think Bumble is a great app too because the women have the power to message the guy first since the guys don’t have control over that. So, you can always give that a try too! haha

        Many blessings to you! 🙂

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